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I think if any woman would ask in the world, they would say that they have a man who is nice to them. Why does it seem that when it comes to approaching and dating women, nice guys finish last?
In truth, it is not nice that undermines most guys. It’s boring, predictable nice that they are not in.

You can be noisy. They can be disgusting. You can be selfish. You can be a complete jerk. You can even all these things to be together and still have a better chance to go a girl with you if you wore them to death with the same old predictable behavior gets them from almost every other guy she meets.

Now I’m not telling you in a couple of loud, obnoxious selfish jerk to get change. I’m just pointing out how deep a boring, predictable, nice guy lines on a woman’s attraction list.

When I say boring, I’m not talking about the guy we all know, the more drones and some opinion or theory he has that nobody else cares about beans.

I just normal guy who could be the life of the party when he was talking about this with his friends, but if he speak attempted a woman he in some under-confident, approval-seeking weenie guy who unimaginitive just says all things hot women all the time listening turns.

Even if he is a great guy, it will be relatively fast, as it that this guy is like any other guy that they could get with the snap of the fingers is clearly bored. How many times have you been to a party or other social get-together and have some very hot woman who would kill for you, with a few obnoxious jerk who treated her like garbage, it will be shining. But they all depend on him and love him ogling, as it is God’s gift to women, even if he does not see much. In fact, sometimes it seems like the jerky guy, the hotter the girl on his arm. So what the hell is going on?

What’s going on that is that most women are attracted more to an exciting, unpredictable alpha male, even if they have to put up with some jerky behavior, then they are with a few sweet, but boring , nice guy that no challenge for them what-so-ever presented. It is like choosing to go to the steep, mogul-filled ski slopes instead of the nice safe predictable little bunny hill.

Everyone likes a challenge. It’s what makes life interesting and worth getting up every morning. And that’s exactly what most attracts women.

Unfortunately, most guys believe to be that women place on a secure, predictable, “nice guy” who will do anything for them brought tightened. If woman after woman, she refuses and instead chooses some self-centered jerk, this self-proclaimed “nice guys” are completely clueless.

Now there’s nothing wrong with being nice. But there is a big difference between boring, predictable, harmless and a nice edgy, challenging, provocative kind.

in the movie Swingers, you remember where Vince Vaughn is coaching John Favreau before he goes to talk a girl at the counter. Vince Vaughn tells him:

“I want you to go to the girl, and I want that the numbers

get – you’re money – Come for a second … Listen to me Look at it, if you go to talk to her, you,

I do not think you are the guy in the PG movie really makes everyone be in the hope that it is possible.

that, you be like the guy in the R-rated movie, you know?

The guy you’re not sure if you remember how.

You’re not sure where it came from, okay? You’re a bad person.

You are a bad person. You’re a bad person.’re

dialogue from the movie Swingers-1996

The must be your attitude when you approach a woman. You want the guy who is a bit of a mystery is to her to be. The guy she is not sure, but for some reason it pulls out from the belly. The guy she can not quite figure out who she wants to continue.

explore this does not mean you have to act like an idiot. In fact I would encourage you to be nice. Just do not be boring, approval-seeking kind. The nice guys do finish last.

What is one of a woman’s most persistent romantic fantasies? That would have to be a long walk on a moonlit beach. In personal ad after personal ad, you see this wish appear. So, why not make it a part of your free dating women repartee? She will be far more impressed than if you took her to a fancy French restaurant?

If you are doing a daytime date, consider going on a bike ride together. Ride for a while. Stop and have a picnic. Then ride home. The exercise will do you wonders and there’s a sense of having shared space without having to fill it with words.

Most towns have free concerts from time to time, but particularly in the summer months.  These range from classical music played by symphonies to patriotic tunes by a military band, to popular music. A concert tells your date that you have a touch of class and in no way screams cheap.

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Similarly, most museums have at least one evening a month designated as a free or donation only night. Take advantage of this and your date will think you have some culture.

Plan a picnic for your date. You don’t have to get imported Cheese or fancy wine either. But, do take the time to make the food special. Cut off the crusts on the bread or make a nice desert. Fruits such as strawberries are easy to pack and quite sexy at the same time.  

Another free dating women idea is to volunteer to babysit a married coupleís children. Not only is it fun to play with the rug rats, it gives your date the idea that you could be good with kids in the future. This will make her think more romantically toward you.

Along the same lines, go house shopping. (Make sure you are only looking at homes well outside your means though so she doesn’t get any ideas.) Again, this has her thinking toward the future which may make you happy in the present.

There are also seasonal things that you can do that make good free dating women events.  For instance, at Halloween, carve pumpkins. There is something very charming about carving funny faces in a gourd. You will probably have more fun doing this than you would if you spent money on a movie.

The next idea I have is also holiday related. Go out and look at Christmas lights. People spend a lot of time and money competing for the distinction of having the best holiday decorations outside their home. You can take advantage of this entertainment for free!

My final free dating woman tip is to build a large fire in your fireplace and read poetry to each other. If that doesn’t get her in the mood, nothing ever will.

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