Hey Doc,
I am a 24-year-old man who works as a personal trainer. I bought and read “The System” and I thought all my problems with women were over. But so far is the case. In fact, I think I had more success with women before I got the book.
I am a good looking guy who could be a part of the problem. They have good looking guys nothing more than the average guy when it comes to dating do? What exactly are the rules when women make comments about your appearance? Not long ago a friend told me that girls do not like to have relations with good looking guys, the guys because they are more likely to cheat and they think that they particularly interested in us for a one-night stand. And in fact I had women up to me very aggressively at parties and try to take me into a back room. When I told them not what they wanted, they wanted nothing to do with me. I’m not a one-night stand type of guy.
To make matters worse, older women are always trying to pick me up and I always seem to trouble with girls my age have. Another friend – a woman – told me that girls my age, I rarely see a day when one of those “Desperate Housewives” did not go with me hint or even makes a sexual comment is perhaps open “intimidating.”. could help me with that one?
Here is a concrete example of my problems. I knew Shannon, who is my age, from the gym, although I never asked them out. Recently I went to her, made small talk, then asked for her e-mail address. She wrote her phone number and said, “Call me next week.”
I waited six days to call, and when I did, she said: “Can you call me back after I speak with my family to eat for dinner?”. I said: “This will not last long I’m going to Dairy Queen on Sunday and would like you to join me..” She said: “I work all weekend.” There was no counter-proposal put forward. A few days later I e-mail and told her that she seemed like a very busy person and asked when a good time, they had to call. I have never received an answer. This means that their interest rates dropped below 50%. Well obviously it was more than 50% if they email me their number and because they ran out of the way to write them down. What has to drop their interest rates? I hardly said anything!
Doc, I’ve followed your techniques as well as I know how. Am I doing something wrong or is there something wrong with these girls
Alex – who is sick and tired, frustrated
Hi Alex,
I know you have my book, but where exactly is your problem – you have just bought it and read it, and that is not enough. What did I tell you again and again? To sink the principles, you must learn it by heart. You have more time, library, my friend /> Let’s talk about this “problem” you have to talk with your appearance, and say we’re talking about you think. You start out pretty good with women, right? And you go and get another book that makes you better with women, right? But after the book, what you had read the mojo babes suddenly drops. Perhaps it is because what you read does not sink you have ever thought about that?
Now we take a look at your next statement: “. I have a problem – I am a good looking guy,” Wow. Kill any other man on the planet would be like George Clooney or Brad Pitt (personally, I want to look like Cary Grant) look, so how the hell can that be a problem? As Dr. Freud says: “Son, you’re living in an alternate reality.”
Alex, you’re handsome. Out of 100 guys, you are in the top eight. As you could actually buy my book and say that good looks is a disadvantage? Sure, things for the good looking guys are different when it comes to dating. As the reality factor points out: “You talk a lot less because they do not have to be to sell as much.” Want to know what you say, when women look at the movie star comment? You say, thank you very much. You smile. You are a gentleman, remember? Be merciful.
So date in your universe girls do not like good looking guys. How is it that good-looking guys always have girls? It is a half-truth that women just want you stud muffin for one-night stands. And what shall I tell you in the dating dictionary? Do not listen to half truths. Alex, what book do you buy? I do not think it was mine.
Like my cousin Sal “The Fish” Love says, “If they back you into a room you want to take buddy, it does not prove you are looking for like Danny DeVito.” But you’re not a one-night stand type of guy. Hey, why should someone abusing and this beautiful body of yours?
It is true that you are probably a little intimidating to some girls, because you are so handsome. It means that they know that other good looking girls after you. “Kitty Kat’s skills,” remember? Now I’m sure you do not notice my book! If you get a blatant come-on by an old lady, only my cousin Fast Eddie Love quote: “. Thanks, but I would prefer going out with your daughter”
Well, it’s good You didn ‘t ask Shannon right off the bat. You could find out that you wanted to see it all the time in the gym, so you do not lose your self-control pull in like a battering ram and try to close. But then your clear thinking is crashed.
Alex, why in the world that you do not go to Shannon’s home phone number when you finally made the move? Why did you ask for the e-mail address? In my book I tell you is to ask 68 times for the home phone number, and you go and ask for the e-mail. This is so easy, man. It is like walking to get to a house in the expectation that in, but do not push the bell! What did you think? Did you ever?
When Shannon you know they call next week, should have done what you ordered? She cried in two weeks to show her you have a backbone. But you do not, and that’s why you do not. That’s okay. Ninety percent of your brothers do not. Blame It On Oprah
But hey -. They waited six whole days to pick up the phone. I’m shocked you did for so long! If they told you to call back after dinner, was that for Womanese “Why do not you call me back in about 39 years ago?”
But then came the idea for Dairy Queen, expecting to turn the tide. You wanted to take Shannon to Dairy Queen? Dude, you need to stop your money to these girls! If you have information, such as Dairy Queen suspension, you will better be the owner of the fitness club!
Guy, Shannon, the second she said she would not eat and talk with you, you should have gotten from there. They have a double fool of himself.
What you could not get over Shannon’s interest level, it fell back as if. Alex, I hate to break this to you, but 40% of women who enter their phone numbers have low interest rates. Maybe Shannon pulls doctors personal trainer. Or maybe that Dairy Queen offer was simply too overwhelming for them with too much and she could not, to put what they think.
What has Shannon’s interest rates fall? I can not believe you have my book. You might be able to bench press 350 pounds, but when it comes to common sense, do you have problems. Following my techniques, “the best you know how” is your biggest problem. Sixty-eight boys ask for the home phone number as I tell it in my book, and here you are asking for an e-mail address. Do your reading comprehension lately?
The younger girls are nothing wrong. You do everything right by dismissed. Get to the library every Sunday for four hours with your yellow marker and begin highlighting and out. The reason why you have problems with women, dude are – is because you do not have to cool my book – and I do not know if they are 18 or 58.
Remember, guys: even if you are as beautiful as the gods you have, you can still talk themselves out of business if you do not understand “the system.”
