Men and women both often fear commitment because it makes them feel trapped. Avoid jumping into commitments and take things slow withtips from a professional dating coach in this free video on relationship advice. Expert: Jessica Claire Contact: www.newyorkdatingcoach.com Bio: Jessica Claire is the host of her own midnight hour talk radio show, where she gives advice on dating. Filmmaker: Paul Muller
For women, marriage is the ultimate commitment. However, in our society it’s geared entirely for the benefit of the woman. In the olden days when couples had to depend on each other for their very survival (taming the western wilderness) and raising families large enough to work the land, marriage was a totally different ballgame. Now it’s a 3 party contract between a man, a woman and THE STATE. A real man’s word is his bond and no piece of paper or license from an external authority is nessa.
Thats bullshit, fear of commitments is a real issue speaking as a guy that has it. I always everntually tend to find fault in a women who likes me enough to want to get serious. Issues involve are physical appearance to lifestyle issues and no one is perfect enough. I think its the media that fucks up our minds by brainwashing us with ideals that few can really measure up to and we end up looking for that throughout our life.
I think for a lot of men who think their attractive, as soon as we know a women likes us, we find imprefections that fester and forces us avoid commitment. IN otherwards a women has to come as close as possible to fitting our ideals in order to go into a relationship.
I don’t fear commitment. I’m actually looking for a girlfriend here in New York City. I haven’t had a girlfriend in over 3 years.
I don’t fear commitment. I’m actually looking for a girlfriend here in New York City. I haven’t had a girlfriend in over 3 years.
Assuming that a person knows another before opening their heart is a big mistake. For me it means being available even if I don’t want to be! Yay!
whatever you msay lady ,some good points though, yes I am a girl i am afraid of commitment
I disagree with you …..you claim men fear commitment you see fear is a feeling that is generated from the inside of you so how the fuck could you honestly say how anyone feels on the inside if you are not them !!!!!!!!!!!
It’s not fear of commitment but more the protective resistance men raise to a woman’s inevitable proclivity to control/change the man’s behavior. So the guy changes and she realizes she can manipulate him, then she loses respect and off she goes to find another challenge. Men should date as many women at a time as possible simply because after the breakup she can be balling a new guy by dinner time. It might be another 2 years before we score because the women still decides who she sleeps with.
I don’t know if it’s FEAR or just something I don’t WANT. I just can’t be with someone for more than a day without wanting time to myself again – I think I’d die if I lived with my gf
i fear commitment cause i feel my entire paycheck will go to the woman or else. and she still won’t be satisfied. I”ll lose my freedom, no more hanging out, maybe 1nce a month.
you’re expected to change your behaviour while tolerating hers.
May 2nd, 2010 at 1:22 pm
im not afraid to get involved…im just afraid we get married and she takes half of everything i have if we divorce because of the prenup? i think thats a valid fear.