Monday, January 18th, 2010

Dating Tips for Men : How to Get Women to Approach You in a Bar


Getting women to approach you in a bar is done by giving them sincere compliments. Avoid playing the shy card to get a woman’s attention withtips from a professional dating coach in this free video on relationship advice. Expert: Jessica Claire Contact: www.newyorkdatingcoach.com Bio: Jessica Claire is a professional dating instructor at New York Dating Coach in New York City. She is one of the only female coaches for men in this industry and has been coaching since 2006. Filmmaker: Paul Muller…

25 Responses to “Dating Tips for Men : How to Get Women to Approach You in a Bar”

jonatimc Says:

wait, she says “I guarantee, most of the time the woman will come and find you later” lol thats a contradiction..some professional advice..lol why not say I guaranteed ALL the time the woman will come find you..who pays her for your troubles..save your money..

6VampireHeart6 Says:

oh phew! just in time i was about to run around looking for “potential mates” lol. It’s not necessary to lie, all you need is confidence, an ability to demonstrate higher value, and the intuitiveness (my concussion is makin this hard) to spot a “shit test”. Just build up some comfort afterwards and when she starts givin signals playfully escalate, but remain aloof. I think a smart girl is a good idea though

Kaspergaling Says:

dnlcast2

You’re very right. Specially countries that are least superior than America. I was surprised how much easier it was to pickup girls at those countries and I’m talking about beautiful locals, not prostitutes. All they really have to hear is your American accent. It was almost effortless.

tastemirainbow1122 Says:

i guarantee that most of the time?
yeah that makes sense

marinedr77 Says:

@6VampireHeart6 Yes that was a joke… if you follow someone around, you will likely end up in jail. You surely won’t get anywhere listening to the chick in this video either though. Most descent “hot chicks” are never single. The hot chicks that are single are usually bitchy and you will need to lie to them in order to catch one. Remember, behind every “hot chick” is some guy who’s sick of her same old shit. Look for an average girl who’s smart, wears earings and takes care of her nails.

6VampireHeart6 Says:

@marinedr77 , is that a joke?

marinedr77 Says:

You could just identify a potential mate and then follow her/him around for a few weeks. After some time you will be noticed and a quick romance is bound to follow. You will rarely be rejected or identified as long as you wear a romantic halloween mask or something.

8wayricochet Says:

let her know you dnt give a fuck and have better things 2 do

mronionsalad Says:

gets em every time.

dnlcast2 Says:

A super easy way to meet women is to visit foreign countries…americans are as good as gold, and you will meet at LEAST, 10 times the women you meet here in america…guaranteed!

TaiMaiShu0k Says:

“COME HERE” usually works for me.

Shuley76 Says:

4. He wants to get laid.

TeamLibertyExpress Says:

Maybe we should all move to china.
I think it all goes down like a business transaction over there, just compare documents and away you go.

92benno92 Says:

Yeah and when you walk off you can go plant more seeds! Haha

philpont Says:

Hey guys. Check out the stuff John Alanis has. I’ll tell you,I went from no dates 2 years ago without my phone barely ringing to a phone ringing off the hook. I had women wanting to meet me from all over the east coast and over 150 phone numbers since the beginning of 2008. Even if you have a relationship that fails,you will quickly be back on your horse in a week. Trust me and listen to John.

standell12 Says:

ARE YOU A HOOKER?

geobreezy Says:

mind games i luv it

zest4livin Says:

When I was dating and went to bars and met men, I picked the guy out I liked. I would sit back and watch to see who caught my eye. Then I would send him a drink, tell the waitress to let him know it was from me. If he is interested he will then walk over with the drink. I never ever got turned down. The guy will be flattered:
1. You noticed him, and picked him out.
2. You sent him a drink.
3. You spent your money on him.

GrifterZed Says:

This is bullshit… Women give THE WORST dating advice. Guys, if you need some help improving your game (and I don’t care how much of a natural you are, you could always be better), then you need to look up some PUA. Try some Vin DiCarlo (personal favorite), the guys at Style-life, and THE guru: Neil Strauss. Pick up artistry WORKS. I get laid constantly and I’m never seeing less than two girls at any given time. No, I’m not affiliated with anyone. All the coaches I listed are seperate entities.

bojangles322 Says:

women are afraid of rejection too tho.. jus cuz a chik thinks your attractive and wants ur attention dosnt mean she’s got the balls to approach you

stperkin Says:

LOL “schmeggie”

DjPyro2010 Says:

Amen to that, I feel you completely

If you come on to her way to strong it will make you look desperate and sex driven (MOST girls aren’t THAT easy)

If you don’t act like you care about what she has to say then she will also think you are sex driven.

It’s really funny how (MOST of the time) the less you talk about sex (especially if you don’t bring it up) the more likely she will let you hit at some point, gotta be patient

nVei06 Says:

i only typed 2 long posts, and neither posted. and it just happened twice before. not even a verification code i didn’t see. just didn’tpost. you shmeggie little fuc

stperkin Says:

clearly.

nVei06 Says:

they won’t let me post

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