A nickname is an alias used in places of meetings to identify other members. All other members in the chat room and e-mail exchange with which we know by that name, at least initially. Your nickname will represent the entire website. For this reason, you should spend some time to choose a good one. Here are six tips for men who want to choose a nickname that is attractive to women. 1. Do not choose something about sex. You do not attract women to choose a nickname about sex. You basically will be in wasting time. Things like Bob_69U “are a no-no. 2. Do not choose something violent. Do not choose something that alludes to any kind of hatred or violence. There is no place on dating websites for that kind of stuff anyway, and women are not looking for people who talk about violence or hatred. 3. Do not choose a bad thing. Negativity is not attractive to women, or anyone for that matter. Women do not respond well to negativity, and if she is a woman who does, then you may not want to be in a relationship with her anyway. 4. Do not choose something that describes you. Take time to think about who you are. Ask your friends what you like. Look at yourself through the eyes of another. Use that information to choose a nickname. For example, if you’re a pilot, you can choose “autopilot.” If you like to run marathons, you can choose “ActiveRunner.” 5. Do not choose something you are looking for. If you are looking to start a family, you can choose something like “Longest.” Think about what you want in life and what kind of woman you like. What qualities and values are you looking for? Is recorded on a sheet of paper, then use them to inspire his nickname. 6. Do not be creative. Spend some time finding a name that is unique. If your nickname is already taken and we must put a number at the end to use it, then it probably is not original enough. “BlueEyes”, “BrownHair” or “Tallman” are descriptive, but not unique, that will not help you stand out. To emphasize his height, for example, can choose “ColossalAtHeart.” If environmental issues are important to you, you could choose “BlueEarth.” The important thing about choosing your nickname is to find a benign term that has something to do with you. Take time for reflection. Write down on paper all the ideas that come to mind, whether good, bad, silly, silly, or boring, until you find one that really makes you think: “Well, that’s the only one.” Having a good nickname for a dating site might not sound like the most important thing, but represents that from the beginning. If you are serious about finding a good woman for a long term relationship or even a casual date, you should spend the time necessary to make it happen. You have to choose a nickname anyway, so it might do well. I remember one woman tells me that the reason why a man was sent by email because of his nickname. This is how he began his online relationship, being friends after a conversation about the name chosen. At some point, small details can make a world of difference.