@xELEMENT1995x i’d eat her garbage

i stick my tongue in the phone in hopes dat it will come out on de other end

I don`t call women first. That`s my one and only rule. I never ask for a womans` number. I may give them mine. And if they call, that`s sweet. But if they don`t, they don`t. But I`ve yet to give a woman my number that has not responded with a desire to meet me again. “Dating Coach ?” For Heavens` sake !

you make the first call by opening your phone and pushing the numbers

i hope that helps very well

You bastard,sexist >:O

Horrible advice, make her call you. Text her. That’s it.

Calling her the same day you hung out is normal among typical relationships. It does not seem needy because you are not making the conversation about going on a date, and it shows confidence because everyone else in the world has some strict plan to wait so many days before calling, but you are casual and carefree, you call her on a whim to talk about nothing. Like you would a buddy. This creates the perception that you’re a normal, regular part of her life, and eventually it becomes reality.

Think of it like building a bridge. Seed Future plans in conversations so you have a bridge over the gap of time you are not together. Try not to call later to make plans, as that’s like building the bridge while on it, and if the bridge cannot be finished with concrete plans, then you fall in to the river and fail. When you have plans and intentions to do something in the future, that makes the phone number seem incidental not the goal.

@Chipwhitley274 Hi Chipwhitley, She was giving good advice. Her advice is the same as what the male dating couches say. I’ll elaborate. Other couches also say you should keep the phone call short and to the point. The purpose of the call is to set up the date. Save the long chatting for the date. Long phone chatting when you first meet her can make you seem needy. As for “when to call” many couches recommend about 3 days after getting number.

The main problem with this “advice” is that there isn’t any advice on how to make the first call. Like when to make the first call, and how to have a casual and natural conversation. She just says “because I don’t actually want to teach you what to do, I want you to just make it as business like as possible. Make an appointment and end the call”

@thesparitan I didn’t say I care. I’m just trying to point out this videos bullshit

@thesparitan watever, you can call it lazy and boring. bottom line is that IT WORKS ok.