as women sometimes we wish we could wave a magic wand and magically our man behaves like a lovesick puppy. Relationships can be so utterly complicated and very confusing not knowing exactly what you should and should not be doing. All I only want one thing and that a strong, healthy and fulfilling relationship with a man who is crazy for us. There are a lot of nonsense to read before coming to the good parts of any relationship, however, and one of the areas that is an enigma for most women is less than a rel = “nofollow” onclick = ” javascript: pageTracker. whentocallmen _trackPageview (‘/ outgoing / article_exit_link’); “href =” http://www .. com “> calling men . We all have a lot of questions including how often to call him when he returned the call and what to say if we have to leave a message. The question of _trackPageview(‘/outgoing/article_exit_link’);” onclick=”javascript:pageTracker. how often you call seems more confusing than it really is. The biggest mistake many women make when it comes to the phone and the man they call too often. Note how often they call compared to the frequency with which is making the call. If you call more often than he calls you, you are asking too much. Women establish a pattern at the beginning of their relations in this field. If you always called him, he did not call you. Men just do not see any reason to call if you are already making the call, so stop. Once you stop calling as often as going to start and then the question of the when to call you back becomes more pressing. If you miss their call, and sometimes should not always call you back too quickly. You want at least a little time to pass between the time they leave a message and call you back. Although he never says it, he will label as desperate if he returns to his call ahead of time. Sitting and waiting for you. Men may not admit it, but I love it when his wife plays a little hard to get. Will only want you more.